Understanding The Concept of Value

Many people talk about value.

But what truly is value?

What are valuable to people?

What is value.

If you type in the word "Value" in google, you will see it's defined as "the regard that something is held to deserve; the importance, worth, or usefulness of something".

Value is perceived and therefore subjective.

Every person has different preferences. A green sofa is low value to a person who doesn't like the color green. But it is perceived higher value to a person who likes green color.

Value is perceived contextually.

Gordon Ramsay is high value when it comes to cooking. But maybe not so much when he's given a task as a barber.

Similarly, in a university, the high value man are the valedictorians and the dean's lister. But once you graduate and hop into the real life, they may not be as high value anymore because perhaps they're not good enough at making money, than some guy who is barely formally educated and making millions.

You are high value to a person, for what you give to them, not simply for who you are.

It all boils down how much resources that are perceived valuable that they receive from you.

But again, resources is not all about money or what you do for them. It could simply be a feeling of attraction. It could simply be a feeling of connection, or mutual understanding.

But the highest value you can give to a person is the feeling of attraction. Regardless what their existing believes are.

The value of attraction

It all boils down how much resources that are perceived valuable that they receive from you.

What is a high value man in the eye of a woman

A man is high value when they have attractive qualities.

Attractive qualities are well-defined muscles, athletic body, deep voice, penetrating eyes, thick eyebrows.

What is a high value woman in the eye of a man

High value woman is the woman who triggers that feeling of attraction in a man. Whether it is physical attraction or emotional attraction, the fact that it fuels a man's life it is valuable to a man. However, to what extent are those attribute valuable is crucial in keeping the relationship.