If You Are Financially Independent, Should You Need A Man?

I make this article to specifically relate to you who are financially independent and have a successful career.

I get that you are probably searching for an article like this to engage your thoughts.

Or, some of you could even already feel that pain of emptiness associated with being single, or being in an unfulfilling relationship.

Why we think we don't need a man to survive in today's civilization.

Because it's true, that if all we want is just a basic survival, (a roof over our head, food on our table), we won't need a man for it. Not at today's civilization.

You could simply get any job you want and survive on it. Especially if you are a citizen or permanent resident of a developed country, especially when they have some standard retirement program that you can trust.

To give birth to a child, we could just buy a sperm from the sperm bank to fertilize our eggs.

Heck, we can even pay someone to carry our baby for 9 months and then give birth to our child.

But the question is, do you want to just survive, or do you want to live?

Our deepest needs, when it comes to a man, is when we are so attracted to him, we feel that pain when he abandons us.

The thing is, now we think that having everything we need makes us don't need a man, is because we have yet to find a man that we are truly attracted to.

But if one day, we came across a man so attractive we can't help ourselves, we will be so sad if our feeling is not reciprocated, and we will be crushed if he abandons us.

What if we hate our job and wish someone could take care of us.

I get it. It's not wrong for you if you hate your job.

It could be because you don't feel you can be yourself in such a stressful environment.

You feel that you're always lonely as you have to fight for yourself and that the world is against you.

I get that feeling.

What if we keep attracting men who are less capable than us that we keep losing respect for, while deep in our heart we crave for a man who stand strong to protect and provide for us.

There's one thing that you have to realize, that actually the reason you lose respect to a man, is not simply because they earn less than you.

The truth of the matter is that, some men are just not showing up in their most authentic masculine state.